OI! So you do exist, somehow you just are way too good at hiding xD If that even makes any sense that giants are harder to find than tinies…?
Well, when you think about it why is there even macro/microphilic people? That’s something i’ve been wondering for a long time.
Like what good could macrophilia do on an evolutionarily level? Why is this a thing? Why do some poeple have the feeling that they need to be a tiny, while others have the need to be a giant? WHAT IS IT ALL FOR!?!?! D::::
not that i’m complaining tho ^ ^ this community is one of the best things this world could have and i’m glad that it’s sort of our shared littlebig secret C:
Meh, same reason there are more subs and masochists in the BDSM world than doms and sadists IMO.
And ahaha, as for why? IMPRINTING, MAN. Imprinting. It’ll fuck yer shit right up.
Way back when I was on a certain gay ERP website, I also noticed this. I was a giant then and I switch around now but I’m mostly interested in the whole being a giant thing. There were a lot of dudes who were into being small and then it was me and about a dozen other guys. I didn’t lack fro competent rp partners though. No sir. I think it comes from domming being a less sexually gratifying experience though that’s just what I’ve read.
Telling people what to do, being the “in charge” party, is emotionally exhausting, and unless you’re getting paid or getting your rocks off, then there’s nothing in it for you.
I was seeing a guy regularly for a short while to get my edgeplay needs met, and he said he identified as “dommy”, though I’d peg him as much more of a top because he was more about pushing buttons to see what they did more than “what I say, goes”. I remember him saying that when he was done playing with me – and we only played for a couple hours a week – he would go have vanilla sex with his other partners for the rest of the week.
It took a lot out of him, and I kinda felt bad because I don’t think I was able to really return the favor in a way that he could appreciate in the same way that I appreciated what he did for me, because my way of doing that is through really typically D/s-y shows of affection like service, obedience, etc.
I think most tops like that really just want to be topped in return – they worked hard to give you your endorphin high, and at the end of the day want to sit back and get “done to” also.
Of course online roleplaying is a bit different, but it’s still more of the same I think – one party is generally responsible for thinking up what’s going to happen and making it happen, while the others get to have fun reacting.
Just my 2c~