When choking your lady out, squeeze the sides. Not the air way. The pleasure comes from the lack of blood. Not the lack of oxygen. Plus if you choke the airway too hard you could break it so squeeze the sides, not the front. And don’t do it all at once either. Start soft and then squeeze gradually harder.
This is exactly the opposite of what I was taught – constrict the airway because restricting blood flow is way way easier to fuck up and much more likely to cause brain damage. The body can survive a short time without air – the brain can’t survive basically at all without blood.