Difficult to talk back when there’s no air in your lungs, isn’t it?
Suffice to say, their “spats” usually last for about two lines: she’ll mutter something he doesn’t like, and he’ll say something to make her regret ever knowing him.
G/t drawing prompt #5: argument
Wow. Abuse kink people are worryingly creepy.
I’m a happily married professional with an active social life, a buttload of family who I’d do almost anything for, and friends I’ve had since middle school.
If you’d like to draw conclusions about who I am, what my kinks are, and what these two very fictional people are like from a single doodle, go right ahead. Just know that it makes you an asshole and if anyone you knew IRL was actually in an abusive relationship, jumping to conclusions is basically the most damaging thing you can do for them.
Gj at your concern-fail on all fronts.
your art work features a large character crushing a smaller one over an argument. If you don’t think that’s dangerously similar to how actual domestic abuse is, where if the victim raises their voice or challenges the abuser they end up getting beaten or worse, then you need to go do some research and look at DV cases.
I don’t see how spotting worrying signs and reporting them to the correct authority would be bad. If they are not in a DV relationship then there’s no problem. If they are, they can be safely helped escape with the right people.
There’s this little thing we in the kink/BDSM scene like to call “consent”. Not sure if you’re familiar with it, but it kinda makes all the difference when it comes to people who are both genuinely concerned and concern-trolling (like yourself) and think they’ve spotted a red flag. Good to know that there are still people who will just go right past me if they see me with bruises, say, around my neck, because they think they fucking know better, instead of just -ask- me how I got them. Both kinksters and actual abuse victims aren’t people that need fucking saving from people like you. And when you go and make decisions about what kind of relationship we’re in without consulting us, without honoring our agency as human goddamn beings, you are objectifying us, you are white-knighting, and you are being a first-class douchebag. Blocked.