tfw you decide not to look at the pet play tags on tumblr ever again because it’s all actually just age play, and when it’s not, it’s just a fuckton of faux fur-toting kins with the occasional passing mention of rough sex wouldn’t exactly call that BDSM 😑 😒 but hey, that’s tumblr for you….
Tag: bdsm
Started a new job and I can’t decide which I’d rather buy with my first paycheck. Either: 1. An eternity collar ($160) 2. Or an oversized robo dick from Frisky Beast (~$110) I WANT BOTH, LIKE, YESTERDAY I’m leaning toward to collar for emotional reasons (don’t live with my dom/owner/superior officer and wish like fuck…
Pet Play Checklist
bdsmpetplay: This doesn’t cover everything, obviously, but I think it’s a good beginner’s checklist 🙂 THIS IS SPECIFIC TO PET PLAY ONLY! “Doesn’t apply” is to be used for when you don’t have the physical anatomy for such an act (vagina vs penis for example), or there’s medical issues preventing said things from happening (invisible,chronic, mental,…
Paramilitary-flavored O/p dynamic
So my partner and I have been sort of gravitating towards this for a while now, but we had a few conversations several months ago that really sealed the deal for us. I haven’t found much of any other info on what we want to do, aside from the tangentially-related uniform kinks and human pet…
I have come up with my ideal tail harness design.
Drawings and proof-of-concept incoming.
So I’ll admit it. I have an agenda with my smut writing. My agenda is to show that you can have the most stomach-churning, spine-tingling D/s (or non-con) without the dom calling the sub a slut, whore, bitch, pussy, or cunt. Because they don’t need to. Because their upper hand doesn’t need cheap pulp stereotypes,…
Leash Training
good-dog-girls: petplayinfo: Leash training is a staple activity of pet play. It is also a misunderstood one; many find the concept of leash training confusing or awkward. With practice, leash training can become an intimate, bonding activity that reinforces the d/s power dynamic beautifully. Protocol While not mandatory, many dominants choose to incorporate the ‘two…
Updated Library For Kinksters
beyondbdsm: uddermasterr: dominantlife: I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update… Aftercare Aftercare 101 Aftercare For Dominants Coping With Emotional Subdrop Dom Drop How To Make A Sub Drop Kit Online Aftercare sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare Subdrop and Aftercare Subspace and Aftercare Consent Consent & BDSM Guide…
Consider: G/t BDSM
An excited and nervous giant filling out a limits checklist as their first assignment from their new dominant tiny. A dom giant picking out their tiny’s clothes every day, like a cherished doll. Sub giant working extra super hard to make sure the house is clean and food is ready for when their hardworking tiny…
Grappling with Consensual Non-Consent part 1
Grappling with Consensual Non-Consent part 1 Because some folks have no idea what this is (and will be more than happy to blanket-label it as abuse), and because giant, lab-grown, cyborg aliens who have been literally stripped of their ability to feel a number of otherwise normal human emotions like love and compassion don’t actually…